Unconscious Coupling: Entering Relationships Without Intention

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Unconscious Coupling: Entering Relationships Without Intention

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Conflict in relationships gets a bad rap.
But what if it’s not a sign of dysfunction...
What if it’s a sign of real intimacy starting to form?

Too often, we associate arguing or emotional tension with failure.
We worry:
"Does this m

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"We’re not really fighting about laundry."

When couples argue, the surface story (money, chores, texting tone) is often masking something deeper.

Esther Perel says the real conflict is about unmet needs for:

Power 🗣️ (Do I matter?

Stonewalling is one of the most common (but commonly misunderstood) relationship patterns.

I’ve been guilty of it too. As I’ve worked to understand my own instinct to shut down during conflict, I’ve uncovered deeper layers of fear,

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